When I first met my husband, he talked a lot about how he wanted to be a police officer someday.

And honestly? It was super exciting.

I felt like I was basically marrying Batman.

I started searching for resources online.  There aren’t many and, to be honest… most kind of make the life of being married to a cop sound pretty scary and overwhelming.  Of course, there’s good reason for that.  It can be really hard, and it can be really scary, and the divorce rate is really high.

I get it.  It’s realistic, yadda yadda.

But there’s so much more I wish I’d known.

Even though this life is hard, it’s not all lousy.  In fact, there’s a lot of good to be found when you know where to look for it.

And as far as the lousy things go, I can help you deal with that too 🙂

But I need you to know that having a happy marriage and being married to a police officer aren’t mutually exclusive.  Not at all.

There’s a lot of happiness to be found – and I want to help you find it.

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