Meanwhile, I’m at home. With two kids. I wake up, get the kids dressed, feed them some breakfast, clean up all their messes, change a couple diapers, wash the dishes and feel like I need a nap. And then I glance at the clock…and it’s 9 am.
2 hours down, 22 more to go.
I’ve had several years of practice, and I am just now figuring out how to manage these 24 hours shifts on the home front. Even before I had children, I struggled with the long hours that seemed endless. Here are some tips and tricks on how to survive those long, long hours:
I am a fairly productive, busy person and I can usually accomplish a fair amount in any given day.
However, I know on days that my husband works that my accomplishments will be less. I purposely don’t plan on completing big projects or getting a lot of “extracurriculars” (like blogging) done on those days.
Give yourself something to look forward to on the days that your husband is gone.
For me, I treat myself to a coke every day that my husband works. I limit myself other days of the week by telling myself “oooooh, I can have that on FRIDAY!” Since work days are days that I usually dread, this adds something to look forward to instead!
I also will choose a TV show or a great book that I can only watch/read on those work days. Again, it gives me something to look forward to instead of just dreading the day!
With a husband working 24 hours shifts, this also means that he works a rotating schedule. One week he works Friday, the next he works Saturday and the one after that he is working Sunday. I learned early on that I cannot stop my routine or build it around his schedule.
Instead, I build my routine- story time on Friday, play date on Saturday and church on Sunday, whether or not he is working. I can’t stay home all the time on the days he works, and the kids and I need consistent schedules.
24 hour shifts are tough, guys. I’ve found that the days that I spend in prayer for myself, my husband and my kids are the days that seem to go smoother.
It’s important to be praying for our husbands at work as well as praying for grace and endurance for ourselves at home. Memorizing Scripture to help get me through is another extremely important thing.
Suzanne is first and foremost a follower of Christ, and this defines everything that she does. She is married to Theo, who is a first responder for the Dayton Fire Department. They have two beautiful biological babies, Tera Evelynne and Hezekiah James. They are also licensed foster parents and therefore they never know how many children they will have in their home!
When Suzanne is not doing what she loves most (which is being a wife, mom, and homemaker!), she loves to cook new recipes, spend time outdoors, go for long runs, and blog at The Glorious Mundane.