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Daily Archives: February 21, 2017

How To Set Goals as a Couple (And Why You Should)

I was so excited to set New Year’s resolutions this year.

I mean, my resolutions aren’t things I plan to do every day or anything, just goals I want to meet by the time 2018 rolls around.  Two of them are just mine (losing 15 pounds and publishing a book), but the third is one my husband and I are working toward together, and that is to save up a down payment for a house.

It’s been so exciting.  I mean, it’s only February, but we’re relatively on track with our plan to save money each month.

And even more exciting than us progressing toward that goal is the time we’ve been able to spend thinking and planning together.  We spend a lot of time thinking about what we’d like in a house, what kind of neighborhood we’d like to live in, how many rooms we want to have, how we think A would like having his house, whether we want a dog someday, how we’d like to garden, and so on and so forth.

Having a goal in common has been amazing for our marriage.  There’s something about rallying each other to meet our big goal and getting to celebrate each accomplishment together that has made us excited about each other and about the future again.  It reminds me of when we were planning our wedding, and I’ve loved every second of it.