I received a message from a fan a few weeks ago. She said she was feeling a little disheartened because all the information she was finding on police relationships was geared toward married couples, and she and her boyfriend are (obviously) not married.
She talked about feeling left out around law enforcement wives. How she felt looked down upon, and generally felt those around her didn’t understand her struggles.
It’s been a long time since I’ve thought about it, but I can definitely relate to that feeling.